So today started off bad to begin with, I woke up checked my banking online to find out that our insurance payment still hasn't gone through our joint account it was suppose to come out on the 15th. Call AMA and they wouldn't tell me anything because I am not Matt, and they needed Matt to send them a fax authorizing me to have access to the account....which I was suppose to have access to. AND the freaken lady didnt understand WHY there are no fax machines in a WARZONE!
ARGH! So I figure ill get my brother to call back and be "Matt" which worked out and I got the info i needed it was coming out of our savings account, great I was in a good mood.
Then I opened the mail that got sent to his mom's house which she gave to me.....
%)^$%)&$(%&$)@#(!) WE OWE roughly $10,000 to student loans which I had NO idea about!! When I moved in with him last year M left he told me that he was almost done paying off the loans and had been making monthly payments, so I never worried about it!!
But NOPE we OWE the money apparently from what they tell me, Im frustrated as hell cause I don't know why this happened, M never lies to me and was SURE he was making monthly payments. None of it makes sense.
SO now im pissed off cause we had such good plans for the tour money, we were suppose to pay for our wedding, get me a used car, and start working on our house down-payment.
Now all the money will go towards the debt. FML I am so frustrated, I don't even know if I should pay them off in full, make minimum payments or book our HLTA trip.
So i sent him an email about the debt and asked him what he wants me to do.....
Im fine with waiting a few years to have our wedding and I am fine with taking Transit to school, but the point is I THOUGHT the tour money was going to what we wanted not debt.
Sorry for the vent its just a bad day.
ARGH! So I figure ill get my brother to call back and be "Matt" which worked out and I got the info i needed it was coming out of our savings account, great I was in a good mood.
Then I opened the mail that got sent to his mom's house which she gave to me.....
%)^$%)&$(%&$)@#(!) WE OWE roughly $10,000 to student loans which I had NO idea about!! When I moved in with him last year M left he told me that he was almost done paying off the loans and had been making monthly payments, so I never worried about it!!
But NOPE we OWE the money apparently from what they tell me, Im frustrated as hell cause I don't know why this happened, M never lies to me and was SURE he was making monthly payments. None of it makes sense.
SO now im pissed off cause we had such good plans for the tour money, we were suppose to pay for our wedding, get me a used car, and start working on our house down-payment.
Now all the money will go towards the debt. FML I am so frustrated, I don't even know if I should pay them off in full, make minimum payments or book our HLTA trip.
So i sent him an email about the debt and asked him what he wants me to do.....
Im fine with waiting a few years to have our wedding and I am fine with taking Transit to school, but the point is I THOUGHT the tour money was going to what we wanted not debt.
Sorry for the vent its just a bad day.
